well if frees are what concern you most just loot at paypal of skrill for example. Do you like that better ? I will always prefer having higher fees and no one above me to fuck with my money
I agree better to have a full control of my fund than someone have the capability to freeze it. I would avoid those services that offers cheap to free services then can freeze or stole the money from my account. Aside from that, the current rise in fee equivalent is due to bitcoin increased in price. Anyway, I believe this problem will be fix, we just need to wait until scaling issue is solved.