I'm sorry, but once the transaction is out I don't think there's anything you can do to get confirmations to come faster. You'll just have to wait for it to go through or get returned to your wallet. I'd refrain from using BTC for quick payments until they fix the issue with miners spamming the network.
But when i make test transaction with high fee it gets confirmations within 30mins , someone choose to give it confirmations or its programmed to take high fees Transactions only at this time ?
btc = seriously confusing