So just so i know for next time... how do i control how much i donate as a transaction fee, as to avoid this problem in the future. I would be more than happy to give more in a transaction fee to avoid this.
Also im not sure what im doing wrong on transaction accelerator. Put my address in and it wont register. The box goes red
Thanks again for all the help
Depends on what wallet you are using.
Most Android wallets allow this; it's in the settings, or a button/tab right before the 'confirm' or 'send' option. Hosted exchanges (Coinbase, Kraken, Poloniex) sometimes bundle transactions to save fees, and use dynamic fees to ensure customers get withdrawals in a timely fashion. Services like these don't give you the option to set fees at all, but it's usually not a deal, it's enough, they will charge you a generic fee that isn't respective of the size of your transqxtion, or send it for free.
Hardware wallets look at the network and suggest the most efficient fee, but you can adjust it usually. Never had to on my KeepKey.
What wallet are you using?