What a shit show.  Not quite sure how i lost my account, but it seems to be causing all sorts of trouble.  It's my fault for not securing it better.  Returning the ether to where it was sent from puts it in the coinbase hot wallet.  Sending it to any address provided here could be the wrong one and i lose my money.  64 and Og both of you have my contact info.  Just pay it to 64 and be done with it.  He was obviously the one who the money was meant for in the first place, and after speaking with him i trust him to send the goods.