How would you recommend me to add a escrows service or where do I get one?
Please educate your self on what is escrow and why a business needs escrow.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/EscrowHere you can find who are all available for providing escrow for your business :
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=855778.0I was planning on being my own escrow is this possible?
Escrow is to make people believe you. You need to put some amount of bitcoins to escrow. That money will be used in the case of you will be deviating from your words. Hence, acting as self-escrow is complete meaningless.