The Father is so great that to see Him would mean death. If a camera survived snapping His picture, the picture would, at best, be pure white.
You and no one have ever seen the "father" and even though they have never seen the "father", they make the assumption that the father is very big, so big that not even a camera could take the photo?
Jesus told Phillip, "He who has seen me has seen the Father."
You can check the dictionaries and encyclopedias for the answer. However, The Heaven of heavens is outside of this universe, so neither of us would understand the coordinates.
Basically you do not have proof of the existence of heaven
That's true. No proof. But proof that God exists, and that the Bible is the Word of God. So, there is strong reason and evidence for believing what God says about Heaven in the Bible.
Actually, it is you who have been brainwashed.

Do you believe in an imaginary man and say I was brainwashed?

Nope!

Then why aren't you killing people that are working on the Sabbath because the bible clearly says you should do it. What about homosexuals, are you killing them?
If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives. (Leviticus 20:13)
All who curse their father or mother must be put to death. They are guilty of a capital offense. (Leviticus 20:9)
Suppose you hear in one of the towns the LORD your God is giving you that some worthless rabble among you have led their fellow citizens astray by encouraging them to worship foreign gods. In such cases, you must examine the facts carefully. If you find it is true and can prove that such a detestable act has occurred among you, you must attack that town and completely destroy all its inhabitants, as well as all the livestock. Then you must pile all the plunder in the middle of the street and burn it. Put the entire town to the torch as a burnt offering to the LORD your God. That town must remain a ruin forever; it may never be rebuilt. Keep none of the plunder that has been set apart for destruction. Then the LORD will turn from his fierce anger and be merciful to you. He will have compassion on you and make you a great nation, just as he solemnly promised your ancestors. The LORD your God will be merciful only if you obey him and keep all the commands I am giving you today, doing what is pleasing to him. (Deuteronomy 13:13-19)
And many many more.
I have looked throughout the bible many times, and not once did I ever see "BADecker" in there. Since I am not listed in there, how do I know which, if any of it, applies to me?
However, do you do all these things that God says? Or don't they apply to you?
Besides, you are showing yourself to be a believer in God. What's the matter? Can't make up your mind? Seems like you are rather mixed up, right?

So you can't argue that the bible and God commands people to kill and instead you say some sentences which make no sense. It's all there, your bible is not a good book and doesn't help anyone.