Alright, lets look into getting a mailing server for mass mailing. You need a copy of Sendy which is available for a fee on their website. Sorry, i can't post link for obvious reason. (You can also contact me for a free copy of Sendy.) Then you need an Amazon AWS account.

You can signup freely on their website using a credit card and phone. after the signup process, AWS will charge your card $1 and your account will be ready for use. But thats not all, you need to manually apply for increase in sending limit.

it will take 2 to 12 hrs to get a response from them. Once approved, you'll be able to send 50,000 emails daily from the account. You can apply for another region immediately by giving them a simple excuse on region difference and they'll approve it. This will allow you to send 100,000 emails daily. Just add it to your sendy and you're good to go.

Now getting approval on SES isnt as easy as it was before... Amazon look more into details of account before approving.

Most important things to watch out for. If you're signing up with VCC, then your chances are slim except your VCC is not publicly available or misused. Then your IP is also important. Using a residential IP is the best.

Setting up SES with Sendy might not give you the best deliverability but there are some tweaks for it which i'l point on much later.

Try to google about Setting up Sendy with Amazon SES and you'll get enough information as possible.

Note: I have my way of getting SES approval but i'm trying to keep it off public eyes for obvious reasons.

http://prntscr.com/fggiua