Hi thanks for the input, that site is very insightful. Do you think I should initiate a double spend from the bitcoin core wallet? (-zapwallettxes) and spend the full balance with a higher fee? It was 0.01765300 to begin with, originally tried sending 0.01128000 (got stuck).
If you're able to do that, better just do it, if not I doubt this transaction will be confirm anytime soon.
Alternatively you might want to take a look at my transaction accelerating services, thanks.