Bitcoin is on the way to become centralized. So, yes, you are asking too much.
That is a complete wrong assessment ,how can a decentralized network be controlled. 
I wish someone would establish an exchange on international waters or on a private island and that exchange wouldn't require any verification or personal details.
The problem is i think it is impossible to make these sort of free exchanges as it could break all the trade regulations and even if a crime is reported there is nothing you can do and with it if you are not following the basics,even i like to have my privacy but i do not mind providing my verification details as long as my privacy is maintained.