I don't mean to pry into your personal life but if they don't agree to the threesome which one would you prefer?
I can jump into this ham sandwich if need be, and I'm probably a better quality top than Vod but a good slapper of mancakes. Gentle at first, then the pace gets picked up with some violence.
As said already you might appeal to either of the people who negged you, but they're not likely to remove anything.