Why is everyone is focused on how good the dev actually is, when i am having issues to synchronize my wallet, it's not working and i cannot see my balance. Fuck me right?

Because it's working just about flawlessly for us?
Download the very latest wallet from the site. Download the bootstrap and copy/replace all files from the bootstrap into your ecc directory.
Add the nodes listed in this thread a page or two back to the .conf file. Re-launch the wallet and give it a few minutes. You should be good to go.