When you pay something with your credit card or paypal, the fees are either negligible or acceptable.
When you pay something with btc, they are repulsive.
Not usually. That only happened to you because you got suckered into the "free bitcoin" deal. You accumulated a ton of tiny pieces of bitcoin ("dust") that cost money to merge back together. It's like you showed up at a jewelers with a bag full of gold dust and asked for a ring. There'll be a pretty hefty fee to melt all that gold down and craft a ring out of it!
Bitcoin shouldn't be gained in tiny near-worthless pieces.