Thank you for replying. Honestly I don't know if my fee was enough and I really can't figure it out. Like I said most of this stuff goes way over my head. I am using bitcoin qt back from 2013/2014. Very old like I said but I just did a transaction on it that same day and it went through. I'm working on getting them out of there.  I don't know how to figure out how many kilobytes my transaction is. Is it safe to post my transaction number here so someone can check on it?