OK< in realtime what happens is a stake comes in as minted, says that it has 1 confirmation and will be available after 50 confirmations, then soon after it becomes a greyed out line with a question mark symbol and the message "generated but not accepted".

Every single one of my stakes has resulted in this and not a single one has been added to my wallet, after closing & re-opening, re-scanning etc.

What do you think is going on, Griffith?  Please fix this problem with staking soon ---- it is a very important aspect of this coin and its long-term attractiveness & stability.

Here is what I see in my wallet --- the first line is the newest stake, and it becomes greyed out and unconfirmed shortly after: