Just to clarify guys, Soul_eater_123 here on Bitcointalk is not a scammer. The scammer used his Soul_eater_123 name (same that happened to me) on the XEL forum. I confirmed this just now. Wanted to clarify in case my post could be misconstrued.
Thanks mate. Yes I made the mistake of using my Steemit name (thecryptofiend) on the Forum and a scammer has used that to try to scam people by making an account using my Bitcointalk name (Soul_eater_123) on there. Seems to be no limit to how low people will sink to scam. ALWAYS use ESCROW no exceptions and always be suspicious if people say one thing and then do another. Those who know me on here know that I would never suggest such foolishness.