What about people staking the coin? is there a wallet update available for windows?
I am getting a lot of stakes that are mined, generated but not accepted. Is this normal?
https://www.screencast.com/t/CeIkiC8Y7h7uThe unaccepted stakes are normal for PoS coins, it occurs when your coins are ready to stake but someone with more weight confirmed that block.
For instance, say I have 1000 Honey and you have 100 Honey, my coins would be more likely to confirm blocks over yours until my coins have less weight than yours do by staking or being sent.