Omg, That fee is too high than high priority fees, 38,45$ It's abnormal fee. You should quit your wallet and transfer all your funds in blockchain for example. As i did.
From the beginning when i start to make profit by collected some bitcoin, I use Xapo wallet to store my bitcoin, which xapo pay fees for us (users). but now xapo team start to set regular fees which it's too high fees, so i decided to quit them and create a blockchain wallet.