Forgive him, he's a newb. Doesn't get that messaging in the wallet gets false hits till you submit it to AV companies.
That said, I've been running the wallet on two machines since launch and there is  NO malware. I always run a few of
my own AV scans on all new wallets as well as virustotal. I also always run Zonealarm firewall, so any  program that
executes needs to ask permission for incoming or outgoing traffic as well as interacting with Windows OS. I can see
exactly what and when the wallet asks for permission and it is all fine and normal for a modified QT wallet.