Kraken can add EOS...with 4 trading pairs...but they can't (or won't) add NEM?? WTF?

You have to pay them. I've suggested doing so. Dash paid $50,000 in development and listing fees to get on there. As the foundation is sitting on god knows how many millions' worth I don't get why they wouldn't spend a piddling amount like this.
It's odious but it would make a vast difference.