This guy is a newbie. So h either send first if he feels confortable or must use escrow. there are enough trusted escrows here to avoid the hassle of being scammed on such a matter.
This said , i see this particular post as someone asking for a service. So the one who´s asking should be responsible to make this smooth.
he say me he dont trust escrow and he need people to go first with him anyone who want to deal with him must use escroW