Dude,if you DO NOT get escrow for deals on there,you deserve what you get........... 
Also,DO NOT pay with Bitcoin,refunds are not part of Bitcoins features
Funny that there are people in this forum enjoying someone's misery, especially having a status "Legendary".
It seems to be a common feature for a lot of people here. Newbies = dumb is their philosophy. To reference quote someone's signature, if you run into a lot of idiots on a daily basis, you're the idiot :p.
@OP lessons to be learnt, escrow costs you a bit of money but better to be safe than sorry.