If he hasn't refunded you in 24 hours or proven that he made you aware of his escrow terms he gets negative trust from me.  That is not how you run a service.  I'm not absolving you of any wrong doing, you have been very difficult from what I can see but you also have some cause to be.  It is unreasonable to hold you to terms he didn't state and ask you to potentially violate your privacy in the process.  Not cool.  You also need to fix your shit and undo the negative trust you gave people unjustly.

I am not going to prove I'm not Og. You're the one accusing me so you should be the one with proof.

FYI I live on the other side of the planet and I'm sure you can find posts in the Local sections in my post history.