There's 2 places that you have to create rules for the port opening:
#1: your router: go to advance, -ADVANCED PORT FORWARDING RULES
it should be similar to this, put the port and lan ip for your computer (not the external that is required in the arctic setup)

#2: Fire wall: follow the instructions there:
https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/hh168549(v=nav.90).aspxmake sure you checked all the options (i.e. it's active).
ok i did all of this already and i typed "goldminenodelist status and my ip address". And it doesn't show anything with enabled for results?