I'm real glad that we're getting some proggres here, but there are so many things that I don't know what they mean in that your last post such as:

1)How to make sure that my BTCQT is running against my custom datadir(what is datadir?)

2)Isn't the latest Armory 0.96?

3)What does boostrap the DB mean?

The only 2 things I know how to do out of that post is to start BitCoinQT on it's own and I've deleted the (C:\Users\user\AppData\Roaming\Armory\DATABASES)

I know this has to be pain in the ass, but I really have no clue about this stuff