Haha... Maybe, if you have already no choice marrying with 5 kids is the easiest way for you. Just joking.
In gambling Time+Effort is a must. You have to concentrate your focus on it and surely everything follows. Just like in love Time and Effort are needed, if you love someone you must give her that right? In gambling it is like that. If you love to gamble then give your time and effort for it and surely you will earn more.