Which side you are gambling ? Are you successful with your intentions of gambling ?
I read finding entertainment from gambling is possible for all the gamblers still it is not a preferred way for all the gamblers. Here we must note all profit seeking gamblers are not successful with their attempts.
How you are gambling honestly and what is your suggestion to a newbie ?
I suggest you to be among the fun seeking ones. As you said it yourself, profit seeking gamblers lose mostly, so you know what to do. Never seek profit from gambling even if you will be winning at first and you'll start to think that maybe it's possible. Stick with your initial point of view whatever happens and you'll be fine having fun with gambling.