Masternode - i did not get any reward after the mandatory update.
Now 3 days are gone, MN Status enabled, active 3 days
Is that normal??? Thought it takes max. 2 days, after restarting a node ....
That's normal.
Normally you get a masternode payment every ( divided by 1440 ) days on average, right now that's about 1957/1440 = 1.40 days.
After a restart (which is needed in case of a protocol update) this is a bit more, depending how long ago your last payment was and how much masternodes were updated before yours.
Best case: you update right after your masternode got its last payment, and coincidentally you're the first masternode to update.
Worst case: you update right before the next payment would have happened (means you already waited for 1.4 days), and you're the last masternode to update, means you'd have to wait another 1.4 days for your first payment.
Add to that roughly half a day (depending on your luck) and you have a ballpark estimation.