I don't hate any religion but yeah, some facts and rituals are quite unfair. Almost all religions have different rules for men and women. I don't think any religion should differentiate between two genders.
My religion as well has some facts I don't agree with. "If someone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other cheek as well." "If one doesn't go to the Church on every Sunday, he is a sinner".
Religion shouldn't make someone lose their self respect or make anything compulsory for a person else they are called sinners. I'm not an atheist but do criticize religion at times.
You have a point in that matter, as what you had mentioned above which is written in the bible. I also don't agreed in someone doesn't go to the Church is a sinner. There is no person who don't get sin in a day, in fact, we don't know as well how many times we commit sin before end of the day whether unintentional or intentional sin.