We should perhaps switch up with a system where all the players are choosing their own fee and pay 100% of them. Tell me if you'd prefer a system like that.
lets not rush to changing the fee system yet. things may look bad right now but they are getting better. the mempool is currently at 1/4 size of what it was 2 days ago and also the blocks are being mined once again full and every 10 minutes on average.
hopefully we go back to a more normal state soon.
If you make it custom people can make typos and pay way too much. The fees now mostly will fit fine.