ok I tried reloading everything = nothing
I tried plugging it directly into the modem rather then through the router internet worked great but still = Nothing
triple checked all the PW and user name settings = nothing.

I am running out of thoughts.

I am about to try whitelisting the IP address.

something else I notesed is the Bitcoin Wallet at the bottom says, "warning: displayed transactions may not be correct! you may need to upgrade, or other nodes may need to be upgraded"