hey fellas, it ended up a real mess and Im sure there was a miner out there cursing me for half the night...

viabtc.com ended up sorting it but I submitted there twice inbetween tying core and Electrum Wallets over a 10 hour period.

It original got to one confirm, the resend disappeared at bcinfo so i set about deleting the resend from my wallet. I did the scan thingy and deleted the resend did the scan thing again just to be sure, it took many hours to do the scan thingy.
So the resend should have been gone from my wallet right?
Wrrong, I opened core, not looking getting up immediately for the kettle. I get back with my cup of tea and the resend is still there, core had updated and im thinking, oh gwad' no it's resent the resend.
Sure enough there it was on bcinfo so I disconnected eveything and went and stood in the corner for a while.
Next day I delete core and the block files that took a week to get down. By this time one or the other had replaced the other, i've forgotten.
Next i go to open my browser, I miss the browser menu item and mis-hit the electrum wallet item but didn't notice cause I clicked over to a different desktop. Somethies crome slow to start on my machine but electrum sure aint so m sitting there waiting for crome flick back a desktop and BAM, there's electrum open with the resend AGAIN....arrrghhhh
I rip me dongle out an just pray eveyone's too busy to pull my ip and dd me....lol...

Maybe it would not of mattered, maybe i should be using a beefier machine to run core rtaher, a 4gig twin-core 3gh sounds enough, butmaybe its not given the circumstance...

thanks for your posts, i havnt open core or electrum since, too scared...lol...