Hi WizKid,
Sorry for the challenges and stress you now face. There truly is no one-for-all solution to help, just rest and, keep your health up throughout the mess.
You mentioned the pool not solving any blocks in 3 months or so - Thank you for the update. Sincerely.
I think you'll find that once there is time to put status back up and running, it will encourage more users to mine at the pool, and increase the chances of solving a block.
But to be fair, that's just my opinion.
Regardless, more important than stats, take care of your situation, and then try to regain some semblance of a good life.