yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair LIFE is.
Agree its our parents and for me not just them its my God aswell but He do not control the way we pick our path it is we who will let walk through the path we pick. Why its because God give us our own mind and not to forget our parents who will guide me and you as we grow.