I concur with Beaflag VonRathburg on the escrow. No escrow = no go on my 20 unit order. Even though you said you would take the escrow in earlier messages, you also said it put me at the end of the line. By that time it wouldn't be worth it.
I've never had problems with BTC using escrow. I have had problems without using it. Especially for multi-thousand dollar orders...