Option the third (there is always a third option, and you should usually take it): make all the money so the woman does all the housework.
That's what I'm trying to do. However, a bunch of things around the house still need to be done by man, either traditionally, or because she can't do it. I do all the electrical and carpentry work and fix random things that get broken. She does the dishes, (I do them sometimes) but I usually throw the trash out. And of course, I set up the wifi network at home, so she can do all the insta-facebook-twitter-youtube, while I do all the bitcoins (and altcoins.)