Perhaps I am doing it for my own selfish pleasure? Studies have shown that with the rise of porn use, men's interest in real life women decreases. Many young men have testified to the effect "It's very hard to get aroused by a normal real life woman after having looked at supermodel quality women on the internet". Virtual reality is simply the next stage in porn. I'm surprised you don't see this point. It was inevitable that porn would go 3D fully interactive virtual reality, so at this point, it's simply a matter of WHO can create it first. And whoever does create it first will become an extremely rich man.
Second Life is a multi-user immersive environment that has fairly realistic humanoid, and non-humanoid, avatars. Participants have anonymity. It is possible to use voice, or to communicate via typing.
I have heard that women are less inhibited in SL, due to the safety and anonymity that they have.
There is at least 1 USB dildo product that interfaces with second life, although I have not heard of any USB flesh-light product.
There are products in SL that offer fairly realistic animations for the avatars in various poses, e.g., sex furniture.
Now that you have told me that I don't know how to pick up women in bars, and am old and need to die, I am quit curious how you can exceed those postings as you respond to this news. I also wonder whether SL is a competitor to your $300 development cost product.
Oh, Second Life accounts are also free. There is an exchange between bitcoin and SLL, if you want to spend money directly inworld.