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Re: How to move on If you still love him/her? Do you experience it?
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ItsEzMkay
on 06/10/2017, 21:04:45 UTC
I can try for sure. First off yes I have experienced and it has been twice for me now. Some of this may sound cliche but do give it a good think if you are serious but the two best pieces of advice I can give you are this.

1) Occupy yourself as much as possible. Sounds simple enough but when we get sad and down that our loved one not around we go into a shell and retract and our existent can be quite grim. Change that by being active,

working out, seeing friends, meeting new women, getting a lot of activity in any shape or form in your life. Activity and staying busy is key number one.

2) This one will sound most cliche but bear with me and it is give it time. Time is the one thing that will make all the pain go away no matter how hard the pain seems. I was almost suicidal at one point in my life and it was

due to losing an SO. Life is not worth losing no matter how important the other person seems, you may not see it at the time now but everything works a certain way for a reason.

I now today can confidently say that I wish I had spent more time doing activities and keeping busy and at the same time I no longer think of any of the SOs I used to be with. They are in the past, and now we move forward

to a brighter future. I hope you can get some help off this advice, I remembered being told some of it but I did not believe it at the time. I wish I had believed it because it would have made my path so much easier!