I got the same mail and it link me to a website which is not the one I applied on. So I guess it's a scam but maybe someone from team can confirm it ?
Other question : whitelist is for pre-sale or do we need to be on whitelist for ICO too ?
The link for tokensale has cappasity.com domain. If it's so - it's not a scam.
No, the sale, that starts on October 25th, is for everyone.