Hi,
Lets say I set a very low transaction fee for a bitcoin transaction(from one of my own wallets to another). I also have mining equipment which is mining for bitcoins. Is there anyway to get that transaction request directed towards me ? In other words can I process my own transactions by giving it priority?
If so how do I do this?
I don't think so. Mining is like a lottery, the more hashrate you have the higher chances of finding a transaction, as far as I know you can't selectively mine a transaction but I may be wrong.
You could try RBF (replace by fee) or -zapwallettx to rescan the blockchain and you should see your coins back in your wallet, then try again with a bigger transaction. This sucks because it takes a lot of time tho.
If you just wait for a while it should get dropped automatically.