Subject !
Should I stop accepting/sending bitcoins in days before / after forking, or wait some more confirmations more than 3-6 ?
Well yes if you are in any business or service where you need to constantly accept and or send payments then before the fork you should stop all transactions. Like the exchanges have stopped accepting bitcoin withdrawals and deposits 4 before the fork and would resume after a few new blocks have been mined already on the new chains. There is replay protection but to be safe I suggest you to not transaction in any bitcoin before the forking is complete.