Well you can look for local exchangers in your country, I have mostly done my trades through a local exchanger, he has never asked me for an ID verification. He does keep a fees for that, I am sure you can find many local exchangers by a quick google search. Which Country are you currently in? I can help you find one. Also for Electrum, yes it is a good choice, it will do everything you need. Just make sure you have got it from the official website and not a copy version of it which is infected. Good luck!