Now you are just being a rude son of a bitch (not a troll).
I would have been rude if I was lying to have someone really close to me died recently.
But since it really happened, and you feel sorry for Gavin, but not at all for me and my mom, then I can only tell you back: fuck you!
Still, the code does not care about who died and someone has to take the stake and develop it further in the right direction.
"Don't be silly" is simply not a proper way to reply to somebody whose a person in the family has recently died.
You must be a sick piece of bastard (or a psychopath) if you don't know that.