"is the 3 million from the exchange they crowd-saled and they put it in themselves to make it look like they raised that much so far?"

I doubt that as they both have escrow. The ticker showing the 3 Mil raised on xenio.io could show whatever though.

What about financials? They must have these at their fingertips. Surely. A detailed spreadsheet showing the breakdown of spending investor money would have been already completed. As in, this coder will code this part, and it will take "x" weeks at an hourly rate etc,. This would lead to an estimation of total funds needed for the project and an approximate ROI for investors. $220,000,000 is a lot of money to ask for without saying how you're going to spend it.