i keep reading crap like this but no one has proof
This is not crap, read the actual newsletter:
https://lists.linuxfoundation.org/pipermail/bitcoin-segwit2x/2017-November/000685.htmlAs fees rise on the blockchain, we believe it will eventually become
obvious that on-chain capacity increases are necessary. When that happens,
we hope the community will come together and find a solution, possibly with
a blocksize increase. Until then, we are suspending our plans for the
upcoming 2MB upgrade.