No i do not think that it is fair because we pay a lot but on the other hand if you cash out a lot at the same time it seems like nothing is lost so i would suggest to just pay the fee because we do not have any other option then just to pay the fee.
Unconfirmed Transactions
105,169 (108,619.84 Kb)
Optimal Fee / Kb
0.00757616 BTC
thats almost 50$ a KB... :/