I can't do that because of privacy reasons, I admit I may set the fee a little lower than average but last time a made few transactions half a year ago it was confirmed in few hours in worst case.
If it's gone that long without confirming now, you'll probably have to rebroadcast. Also, if you mark transactions as RBF, you have the option to bumb up fees during congestion.
I used Electrum with the option "increase fee" Never paid more than 2 USD in one hour.
Of course, thats no argument for crypto. No coffee paying here. Thats for crypto 2.0.