Unfortunately that just isn't possible because miners fundamentally control what votes get into the blockchain at all. What you are proposing allows miners who wish to raise the blocksize to rig the vote by ignoring transactions voting against an increase, and it just takes a 50% majority of miners to do that. Not exactly a compelling majority of Bitcoin users is it?
This also applies to your proposal. 51% of miners can reject all "status quo votes" and blocks containing status quo votes. After one year, these status quo votes will get lower and lower weight and eventually the blocksize will be increased.