1. Start up realcoin-qt.exe, wait for it to load, then exit.
2. Put realcoin.conf in your c:/users/**yourcomputername**/appdata/roaming/realcoin, you can also use %appdata%/realcoin

realcoin.conf

Code:
listen=1
daemon=1
server=1
rpcuser=**Yourusername**
rpcpassword=**Yourpassword**
addnode=198.211.17.160
addnode=199.71.215.196
3. restart realcoin-qt.exe, and you should connect and sync.
4. prepare for solo mining: create a shortcut for realcoin-qt.exe, add -deamon -server parameters to the shortcut, then run realcoin-qt, or you can directly        run realcoind.exe
4. Launch cgminer or whatever mining program you like and begin mining.
      cgminer ex: cgminer.exe --scrypt -o localhost:20002 -u **yourusername** -p **password** (without **)