For one thing, we have to accept that there is change in our lives and the lives of our loved ones. Secondly, there is always something we want to change. Thirdly a sudden drastic change in your life sometimes happen, so it's either you adapt or resist. Now in a community, i really believe that to be able to have a change, and i hope it's a good change, you need to start in the very smallest units (which is family) to reeducate and police each other