Let's do a hardfork and create two coins: Bitcoin Plus Segwit & Bitcoin Plus TorCash. Everyone satisfied.

just kidding, of course.
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I'm not sure myself which way to go is the best. By the way, I don't even know what is 'CSV' and what it entails for the coin's future - if you could explain in a few words.
I sense that the dev team prefer the Segwit road, which could provide for a new, challenging experience and offer new opportunities in the future.
I would tend to support what the team and devs foresee as being the best for XBC.
It's true that it would be a rather unique experiment to have a POS coin with Segwit integration.
And keeping the old native tor wallet functional and compatible for those who prefer this option could be a reasonable compromise.
Yes I agree i think think this is the way to go.